Tag: introspection

  • Charged guilty!

    Empathy is a double edged sword. Makes one feel guilty at the drop of the hat. So how to tackle apathy? How does one take the indifference from others? Turn cold and indifferent or continue to sprinkle warmth in the relationship?

    Neither. Yet both. The longer (& more treacherous) path is to play one’s true self. It requires maximum patience, median oversight and minimal fueds. The shorter (& more combustible) path is to give it all back. Ofcourse all is fair in love and war; especially this which is a cold war. Either ways you need a tons of introspection, planning overhaul, understanding of the dynamics and putting the right messages out at the right time. It’s no less efforts than required in active politics!

  • Is wrong also right?

    It is well understood that we shouldn’t judge others. But what if we understood how to not judge ourselves as well. Was I wrong in doing what I did? Or was I right in believing what I did?

    Half full or half empty?

    Pondering over past decisions, situations and playing them out differently in our head is a great exercise. But needs an aware and cautious mind to meticulously navigate this tricky labyrinth. Being able to distinguish between reality, aspirations and dreams is where one must draw the line.

    Right or wrong then merely becomes relative. It is a question of perspective, ideology or morals. Cos one person’s wrong maybe another’s right!